DAILY LIFE AT THE MEDIEVAL ZENITH 347
Prostitutes made it available in every city, town, and village. And anyone who has
ever spent time working on a farm knows that sex is everywhere every day.
Medieval people were less prudish about sex than we moderns usually think.
It is true that the Church tried hard to promote chastity as the ideal that all Chris-
tians should strive for, whether they were married or not, and that it fulminated
loudly and often against the sins of the flesh. Legal systems and social codes also
strove to control sexual behavior—less so, perhaps, for moral reasons than for
practical ones such as concerns over inheritances, property interests, household
organization, social status, and public health, all of which were affected by peo-
ples’ sexual activity. The dominant, normative ideas about sex and sexuality came
of course from the Church. From the time of the Church Fathers on, the dangers
of sex were a consistent theme of Sunday sermons, Church decrees, and theological
treatises.
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But there is an irony in this, since Jesus himself said very little about
sex, or at least the writers of the Gospels felt that his teachings on sex were not
of sufficient import to write down in great number. The Gospels do quote him
saying that celibacy is a gift from God and that whoever can receive this gift
should do so. But it was far from clear whether a statement like that necessarily
meant that all sex is intrinsically evil, or that any particular type of sexual activity
was more or less pleasing in God’s eyes than another. Jesus may have lived an
abstinent life—but did that mean that those who believed in him had to do the
same? His own chosen favorites, the twelve apostles, were not universally sexless.
St. Peter himself had a wife.
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The simple truth is that most of the sexual morals associated with early and
medieval Christianity were pagan in origin.
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Christianity simply adapted itself to
a set of cultural ethics already in place, and it was able to do so precisely because
Jesus seems not to have considered the issue to be all that significant. He appears
to have had more important things on his mind (such as money: He comments
more directly on money than on any other aspect of daily human life). From
where, then, did the western European emphasis on virginity, married heterosex-
ual intercourse, the avoidance of masturbation, the disapproval of homosexual
activity, the horror of prostitution, and the danger of sexual profligacy come? The
answer is: the pagan Romans and the pre-Christian Germans. Despite the well-
known stories of orgies at the imperial court and the supposedly Olympian sexual
appetites of rulers like Tiberius, Caligula, and Nero—not to mention some of their
wives and daughters—the Roman world was actually renowned for its sexual
modesty. That, in fact, is why some of their writers paid so much attention to the
sexual exploits of the ruling class: The rulers’ actions were completely out of step
with the values of the common culture. The early Germans brought with them
16. A Carolingian bishop in Orle´ans was once asked by a parishioner when he and his wife should
absolutely abstain from sexual intercourse in order to remain in a state of spiritual grace. The bishop
suggested a moratorium on sex at least on every Sunday, Wednesday, and Friday; on every five-day
stretch prior to the couple’s receiving of communion; on the eve of all the major feasts of the ecclesiastical
year (and then on the feast days themselves, naturally); throughout the eight-day vigil prior to Pentecost;
and throughout the entire forty-day seasons of Advent and Lent. In addition, intercourse was to be
avoided during the wife’s menstrual period. This meant abstaining from sexual activity between 200
and 250 days of each calendar year. We do not know the parishioner’s response.
17. Matthew 8:14–15 describes Jesus healing Peter’s mother-in-law of a fever.
18. Consider the cases of St. Jerome and St. Augustine, two of the principal architects of the Christian
code of sexual ethics: Both of them were horrified by and disgusted with their own sexual profligacy
before they became Christians. They then simply cast a Christian veneer onto their preexisting system of
values.