The trend of having a personal coach has grown over the last few years. Hardingham
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believes the act of talking to a supportive outsider can help managers. It gives them
space and time to work out and understand mixed messages they may be hearing in the
workplace. The example she uses is a situation where a manager has been explicitly
asked to collaborate with other managers and yet the culture is competitive and there
are no teambuilding opportunities. She suggests that there is a lack of clarity in the roles
that managers are expected to play and speculates that they have lagged behind the
complex structures, causing ‘double-bind’ ‘no win situations’ where ‘you are damned if
you do and damned if you don’t’.
Coaching is used to help a person move forward. It is about change and focuses on
results. It is therefore no surprise that many organisations are turning to coaching.
Starr
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asserts that coaches work from a set of common principles:
■ Maintain a commitment to support the individual.
■ Build the coaching relationship on truth, openness and trust.
■ The coachee is responsible for the results they are generating.
■ The coachee is capable of much better results than they are currently generating.
■ Focus on what the coachee thinks and experiences.
■ Coachees can generate perfect solutions.
■ The converstion is based on equality.
Listening is an essential skill and Starr describes different levels of listening from cos-
metic (it looks as if I am listening, but actually I am someplace else) to deep (more
focused on you that me – getting a sense of who you are). Asking questions, giving sup-
portive feedback and using intuition are all part of the coach’s tool kit. Most coaches
use a framework for the session. A common model is the GROW
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model:
■ Goals – What does the coachee want to achieve? How do they want to feel afterwards?
■ Reality – What is the scenario? What is the context? What are the problems? How
have they been handled?
■ Options – What are the possible actions? Which are the most attractive? What has
worked in the past?
■ Wrap-up – What actions are needed? What does success look like? What if things get
in the way?
It is easy for managers to slip into habitual ways of thinking and behaving. Some prob-
lems take the person relentlessly around the same cycle of thoughts. Powerful
questions can stop the circle and help the person to move forward. Coaching can be a
helpful mechanism to engage in change. Grant and Greene
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conclude that:
Coaching teaches us to monitor our progress and change direction when necessary. As we reach
milestones on the way we need to take time to celebrate our successes. The key to it all is action,
continuous and delibrate action.
Coaching has also caught the attention of critics who charge it as an ‘unregulated,
unstructured and (potentially) unethical process’ unless the process is evidence
based.
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Chapman
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in her article urges psychologists to empirically test the contribu-
tion that coaching can make in performance and behaviour.
Mentoring requires a set of skills which include the role of a coach. Clutterbuck and
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define four roles – counsellor, networker, facilitator and coach – and say that
‘at its simplest the mentor is there to help the mentee to learn’. However, research into
mentoring illustrates that organisations need to be fully committed to the idea and
ensure that the individuals are fully prepared for the programme to prevent the onset of
problems. Benefits to be gained are obvious and include managerial effectiveness, com-
munication improvements, the promotion of equal opportunities and self-learning.
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