162 THE CENTRAL MIDDLE AGES
A fairly sharp division of labor existed between the sexes. Men performed the
bulk of the heavy labor on the manor—plowing, planting, harvesting, milling,
storing, butchering and carting—while their wives and daughters tended the do-
mestic scene. Food preparation, child care, ale brewing, vegetable gardening, and
cloth weaving filled most women’s days. Wives generally had little property of
their own and little right to control whatever they did have. By long-standing
custom, a woman regarded as the legal property of her father since birth became
at marriage the legal property of her husband. Harsh living conditions, poor food,
the difficulties of childbirth, and the widespread custom of wife-beating resulted
in a life expectancy much lower for northern women than men.
Numerous restrictions, both legal and cultural, shaped northern women’s
lives. Society both valued and feared women’s sexual allure, but sexual prudish-
ness was not necessarily characteristic of peasant culture. Degrees of permissive-
ness varied, of course. Society did not actually encourage young women to indulge
their sexual nature, but absolute virginity prior to marriage was hardly demanded
or expected. Indeed, in a world that needed to produce as many children as pos-
sible to offset the high infant-mortality rate (as many as one-third of all peasant
children died within four years of birth), a young woman’s bearing of a child out
of wedlock frequently increased her desirability on the marriage market; her fer-
tility, after all, was not in doubt. Clerical attitudes toward sex differed sharply.
Monks and nuns were kept apart as much as possible, both by ecclesiastical decree
and the maintenance of separate enclosures. Within parish churches, strict rules of
decorum mandated female modesty in dress and comportment. In some northern
areas, in fact, women were entirely banned from entering their parish church or
even setting foot on its land, as the following example from the eleventh-century
writer Simeon of Durham shows:
There have been many women who in their audacity have dared to violate
these decrees, but in the end the punishments they all received speak elo-
quently of the enormity of their crimes. One woman named Sungeova—the
wife of Gamel the son of Bevo—was returning home with her husband one
evening after some sort of entertainment [in the village]. She complained end-
lessly to her husband that there were no clean spots in the road, since it was
filled with so many mud puddles. Finally they decided to cut through the
yard of the local church and to make amends for the transgression later on
by giving some extra alms. But as they progressed Sungeova was seized by
a sense of horror and cried out that she was losing her mind. Her husband
silenced her and told her to hurry up and stop being frightened. But as soon
as she passed the hedge surrounding the church’s cemetery she fell senseless
to the ground, and that very night, after her husband had carried her home,
she died....Icould cite many other examples of how the audacity of parish
women was punished by Heaven, but let this suffice for the moment.
The seasons of the agricultural cycle and of the ecclesiastical calendar gov-
erned most peasants’ lives, whether male or female. Surprisingly few people saw
a priest regularly; many counted themselves lucky to see one once a year, and in
fact even as late as 1215 the Church had to pass a decree requiring the faithful to
confess to a priest and attend Mass at least once every twelve months. Neverthe-
less, Church festivals punctuated the year with a continuous succession of saints’
days observances, fasts, feasts, memorials, and celebrations. Itinerant priests, dea-
cons, monks, and (later on) mendicant friars often presided over these festivities,
but in many cases no clergy were present at all. Oftentimes a passing pilgrim