the couple should move away from territories that were occupied, annexed,
or had a politically problematic ethnic mix to the so-called Old Reich
territory.
41
His conditions could be much more stringent, however. Rot-
tenfu
¨
hrer G., a member of the guard unit at Dachau KZ, asked for permis-
sion in 1942 to marry Lucie B., the mother of his three children. Both were
natives of the Warthegau. Himmler withheld permission for the foreseeable
future, as the woman ‘is not in a position to bring up G.’s children as
Germans. G. has only himself to blame for this refusal, as he failed to teach
B., whose father is German and mother is Polish, to master the German
language and use it all the time.’
Himmler, however, held out hope for the marriage, if Frau B. and her
children submitted to a programme of Germanization, which Himmler set
down in detail: the children were to be transferred immediately by the Race
and Settlement Main Office to a ‘good German children’s home’, where the
‘purely German and other aspects of their upbringing’ were to be moni-
tored. ‘An SS leader from the Race and Settlement Main Office near the
children’s home is to be given personal responsibility for checking on and
visiting the children. He should take a kind interest in them, as would an
uncle with his nephews and nieces. The mother, Frau B., if she really wants
to marry the father of her children, is to be sent for a year to a mothers’
school run by the NS Women’s Organization (Frauenschaft).’ She would not
be allowed to marry G., Himmler continued, until she had been given a
positive assessment there: ‘My decision should be communicated to G. by
his commanding officer personally in a long, very positive, and kind
conversation.’
42
By contrast, Obersturmfu
¨
hrer Adalbert K., a member of the Death’s Head
division, was transferred ‘to the east immediately’ in 1943 on Himmler’s
orders for having submitted a request to marry ‘a girl who was admittedly
good-looking’ but who came from a strongly nationalist Czech family.
43
In
this case Himmler decided clearly in favour of the ‘national point of view’.
Even in the case of Hauptsturmfu
¨
hrer Dieter Wisliceny, who had played
a decisive role in organizing the deportations of the Slovakian, Greek,
and Hungarian Jews, the Reichsfu
¨
hrer took the view that, given that the
prospective bride regarded herself as an ‘ethnic Hungarian’, though ‘of
good race’, the most important factor was whether she had the right ‘attitude
to Germany’.
44
Himmler was indignant when couples wishing to marry did not submit
their applications until the bride was about to give birth. Such behaviour,
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