122 / POLYGLOT: HOW I LEARN LANGUAGES
for one more year.
Of course, we should consider the connection between
age and language learning with more tolerance. After all,
a component of language knowledge, pronunciation, can
hardly be acquired after the age of 10 or 11.
Henry Kissinger, one of the most intelligent people of
our age, is a prime example. He arrived in the New World at
the age of 15. Fifty years later, when he was giving a lecture
at Stanford University, a professor correctly identified him
as being from the Franconian part of Germany.
After learning 16 languages and after more than half
a century of living in Budapest, sharp-eared people can
still discover in my speech the vowels typical of natives of
Baranya.
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e most favorable time to enrich vocabulary and im-
prove conceptual ability is adolescence. However, I would
prefer to postpone learning grammar rather than try to learn
it the way it is prescribed in present-day curricula.
Grammar is the most abstract field in the realm of the
intellect. As I usually put it, “I will sooner see a UFO than
a dative case or a subject complement.” When learning
spelling, it is helpful to acquire the letter-sound relation-
ships, but there is no need to clarify the specific types of
inflectional and derivational suffixes. A Hungarian won’t
say szobáben even if the rule of vowel assimilation has never
been explained to him or her.
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e mother tongue is such a
natural medium for thought as a field is for a wild flower.
When learning a foreign language, however, grammar
can be a catalyst. If a student wishes to get his bearings in
our Hungarian language, it will be a pleasant surprise for
80. A county in southern Hungary. Its seat, Pécs, where Dr. Lomb was
born, is approximately 120 miles south of Budapest.
81. In Hungarian, most suffixes have two or three variants (e.g., -ban
and -ben for “in”) and their use depends on whether a word contains front
or back vowels. Szoba (room) contains back vowels so the -ban version
should be used with it.