retains its power: soon after meeting Francion, Raymond tells him "that his good face, whence he
had noticed streamed forth something noble and distinctive, was a charm that had
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invited him to make him an infinite number of offers of his service"; having seen Francion's
qualities in action, Raymond assures him, "[M]y dear friend, it is now that I shall give you proofs
of the affection that I carry for you."[29] Pierre Marivaux took up the theme in the early
eighteenth century. "There's no need to thank me for what I have done," explains his Jacob to the
man whose assailants he has just driven off. "I was only too pleased, and I took to you at once
just from your looks."[30] Such stress on personal attraction fitted easily with the ideology of
nobility. Jacob's friend, Francion, and d'Urfé's heroine all attract strangers because they are of
noble birth; indeed, their attractiveness serves as an outward sign of social standing, which their
new friends will learn of only as the plot unfolds.
Like these literary depictions, Furetière's late-seventeenth-century dictionary presented
friendship as a mixture of passionate attachment and practical service. For Furetière the point of
friendship lay in effective assistance; a friend was someone "who has affection for some person,
and who procures or wishes for him all sorts of advantages. There are friendly peoples and
friendly maisons , which have the same interests." Yet Furetière combined this stress on
utilitarian friendship with a view of friendship as a passion. Affection he defined as a "passion of
the soul which makes us wish someone well. . . . One speaks thus of both love and friendship."
Furetière's language juxtaposes passion and interest and emphasizes the place of action in
friendship. Friendship, he suggested, is an urge to advance another, a wish that the other receive
"every sort of advantage." It is thus bound up with calculations of interest. Yet he also defined
friendship as a passion, which in Cartesian fashion he understood to begin with the senses:
passion, he wrote, is one of "the different agitations of the soul following the various objects that
appear to our senses." Though its aims were calculating, in other words, friendship's origins, like
those of love, lay in a physical inner agitation. Hence it is not surprising that for Furetière true
friends, intimate friends, are amis de jeunesse ; he linked friendship to a youthful capacity for
receiving external impressions and responding passionately to them.[31] In this view he followed
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Aristotle, who believed that purely utilitarian friendships occurred most commonly among the
old, because the old are readier to pursue self-interest than emotion.[32] Even within Furetière's
vision of friendship as serving usefulness, there remained the assumption that friendship was
essentially a passion.
Because of friendship's basis in the passions, it was not limited to masculine relations; in
seventeenth-century opinion, at least some women could have friendships as well. A pamphlet
described Madame de la Vallière, Louis XIV's first mistress: "[S]he is sincere and faithful, far
from any coquettishness, and more capable than anyone in the world of great attachments; she
loves her friends with an unbelievable warmth."[33] Arnauld d'Andilly numbered two women
among the four great friends of his life.[34]
If seventeenth-century friendship began in physical attraction, however, it developed also from
strongly felt needs for intimacy and service. In the seventeenth century, these needs were not so
separate as might be supposed; to be able to exchange confidences with a friend figured as an
important practical need in the unsettled, disguised world of court society. "The thorniest
problem" that a newcomer to court encounters, counselled Nicolas Faret, "is to know how to
choose a faithful, wise, and experienced friend, who can supply les bonnes adresses and give us
an idea of the customs that are followed, of the powers that reign, of the cabals and parties that
are in favor, of the men who are admired, the women who are honored, of the morals and