from their surroundings, establishing themselves as individuals and freeing themselves from a
variety of constraints.[1] At the same time, with writing they entered a new
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kind of relationship with the society around them, for written words inevitably escaped the
limited circles of family, friendship, and court; despite efforts to control their circulation, written
words reached unexpected and unwanted readers. Like money, thus, writing drew nobles into
forms of exchange that were often anonymous and unpredictable. The circulation of writing, like
that of money, challenged the principles of a hierarchical society. Like their experiences with
money, the nobles' encounters with this aspect of writing gave them both pleasure and anxiety.
Concern with writing, finally, paralleled concern with civility and, indeed, preoccupied many of
the same individuals. Like good manners, writing created boundaries: between an elegant present
and a crude past, between city and country, between high society and other groups. Yet, also like
the rise of civility, good writing seemed to have unsettling moral consequences. It was believed
to stimulate passions and undercut ethical beliefs, and it visibly disrupted boundaries between
men and women. Though it brought certain forms of order, writing also brought important forms
of disorder to seventeenth-century high society. It offers yet another example of contradiction
within aristocratic culture.
Seventeenth-century nobles spoke often of their fascination with writing, and they made clear
that they found it a pleasure rather than a mere task. "My greatest pleasure at that time," wrote
Hortense Mancini, duchesse de Mazarin, about her childhood, "was to lock myself up alone to
write down everything that occurred to me."[2] Other seventeenth-century women shared this
sense of pleasure in writing, and it easily became a shared enterprise. "She had the fantasy,"
wrote Tallemant des Réaux of an important noblewoman, the wife of the maréchal de La
Meilleraye, "that there is nothing so beautiful as to write well; and that without this one is only a
beast; she persuaded three other sensible women of this; and all four of them practice good
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writing, often in the four corners of a room, each with a table, writing sweet nothings to each
other."[3] Men too spoke of writing as a source of pleasure and escape. Bussy-Rabutin described
undertaking his memoirs "with no other aim than my own amusement," and he too traced the
habit of writing to his youth: "From my very earliest youth I have written down everything that I
have done," he claimed.[4] At about the same time, the retired soldier Antoine Arnauld began his
memoirs without "any objective but to amuse myself in the solitude in which I spend most of my
time."[5]
A source of private pleasure, writing also permeated seventeenth-century personal relations.
Following one of their numerous quarrels, Louis XIII and Cinq-Mars sought to fix the terms of
their friendship in written form, using writing to supply the stability that daily relations lacked.
"We, the undersigned," so their accord began, "are most satisfied and contented the one with the
other and . . . we have never been in such perfect mutual understanding as we are at present."[6]
Love letters of course circulated in large and apparently increasing numbers. Retz, in his attempt
to seduce Madame de Longueville, "every day wrote three or four notes, and received as
many."[7] Bussy-Rabutin advised anyone interested in love to work at his writing: "A lover
without his writing desk," he counselled, "is in a bad way; he's a man out for glory who goes to
combat without his weapons."[8] Love letters were expected even in the pursuit of temporary
liaisons with social inferiors. Charles de Sévigné, in the course of a disorderly youth, had affairs
with both the famous courtesan Ninon de L'Enclos and the actress Marie de La Champmeslé, and
each affair, despite the women's inferior social standing, involved extensive correspondence.[9]