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a modern family that was based on values acceptable to the Japanese state.
From the recent historical past, they drew from the household (ie) model
that had previously applied to the samurai class.
The ie was a patriarchal/patrilineal household system geared to produc-
tion and reproduction based on principles of cross-generational continuity,
hierarchy by age and gender, duty and gender-based division of labour.
The male head of the ie controlled the behaviour of the members. His wife
(the shufu) had maintenance and managerial responsibilities related to the
domestic resources of the ie, including training her successor, the bride of
the heir, in the customs of the household. A single heir inherited the prop-
erty, as well as the responsibility to care for aged members and improve or
maintain the resources for the next generation. The heir was second only
to the head in status. He earned this position not merely by birth order
but by showing that he was capable of managing the ie. Eldest sons could
be replaced as heirs by more capable younger sons. The heir had status,
but not the freedom to develop other talents that might conflict with ie
responsibility. His younger brothers might be given more education so that
they could make their way outside the ie.
Women were subordinate to men and the in-marrying bride was the
lowest member of the ie, under the training thumb of her mother-in-law;
expected to be up first and go to bed last, to work hard and produce heirs.
In the event that there were no suitable heirs, successors could be brought
in by adoption, that is, a groom could be adopted for the most suitable
daughter. Although as a male, his position was higher than a bride who
joined the ie, in many ways his entire tenure was seen as a transition until
his son could take charge: as in the case of the bride, he no longer belonged
to his natal ie.
Marriage was a union of households decided by the heads of ie. Unsat-
isfactory brides were returned to their parents and a new bride sought.
Children belonged to the ie, not to the mother.
In contrast, peasants and poorer townsfolk had a much more casual
approach to marriage, and relatively free sexual relationships. Walthall’s
work on the mores of farm women suggests that even after marriage, there
were variations in the control of sexual behaviour; importance of the con-
jugal relationship of the couple; and whether sexual indiscretions after mar-
riage would automatically remove a woman from the household into which
she married.
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In addition Walthall found cases indicating that even when
a woman produced a son and heir, she might be sent back for not being a