82 Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder
it wasn't easy. I think you're always doing things for the approval
of your parents. I think I understood them, their shortcomings,
better than they understood me. I convinced myself I should
forget it. I was away from home anyway, so I started looking for
the approval of the other people.
A few weeks after the Mr. Universe contest I did an exhibition
in Stuttgart and my father came to watch me. He was excited
about the fact that I got a lot of applause. That hit home for him.
I don't think it occurred to him that they cheered and applauded
because I was Mr. Universe, that they liked my body, which was
one of the best-developed bodies in the world—even then. He
knew there were 2,000 people who had come to see me pose.
But that's as much as he understood of it. And my mother even
less—until much later, when she saw me win the Mr. Olympia
contest in 1972.
A short time after the contest I received an invitation from Reg
Park asking me to come to South Africa, stay at his house, and do
the exhibition he had promised. I was in my glory. My friends
were astounded. I trained as vigorously in preparation for this
exhibition as I had for any contest I had ever participated in. I
don't know how many years I'd dreamed about being like Reg
Park; then, all of a sudden, I was really almost like him. People
remarked on it. They said we shared that rugged, heroic quality.
I stayed with Reg in Johannesburg. He had a beautiful sprawl-
ing single-story house with an Olympic-size pool in front, the
whole thing surrounded by a rose garden and acres of flowers
and trees. The house itself was filled with antiques from all over
the world. It had an aura about it: it was the house of a star. That
quality was unmistakable. In the dining room, for instance, you
pressed a button and servants appeared.
At first I felt out of place, but before long my discomfort disap-
peared. Reg and his wife, Maryanne, treated me as if I were their
son. They included me in everything they did; they took me to
parties, films, dinners. Being with them opened my mind to what
was possible for me aside from endless days taken up totally
with training. I could have a gorgeous house, businesses, a fam-
ily, a good life. Being with them, I felt fulfilled. It was a unique
experience for me to see Reg at home, to be with him that long,
and to get so much attention from him.
It wasn't all praise. I asked him for criticism and I got it. He,