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Globalization makes ethical issues even more complicated for today’s manag-
ers.
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For example, although tolerance for bribery is waning, bribes are still con-
sidered a normal part of doing business in many foreign countries. Transparency
International, an international organization that monitors corruption, publishes an
annual report ranking 30 leading exporting countries based on the propensity of
Many of today’s top executives put a renewed empha-
sis on ethics in light of serious ethical lapses that tar-
nished the reputations and hurt the performance of
previously respected and successful companies. Yet
keeping an organization in ethical line is an ongoing
challenge, and it requires that people at all levels be
willing to stand up for what they think is right. Chal-
lenging the boss or other senior leaders on poten-
tially unethical behaviors is particularly unnerving
for most people. Here are some tips for talking to
the boss about an ethically questionable decision or
action. Following these guidelines can increase the
odds that you’ll be heard and your opinions will be
seriously considered.
▪ Do your research. Marshall any facts and gures
that support your position on the issue at hand,
and develop an alternative policy or course of
action that you can suggest at the appropriate
time. Prepare succinct answers to any questions
you anticipate being asked about your plan.
▪ Begin the meeting by giving your boss the oor.
Make sure you really do understand what the
decision or policy is and the reasons behind it.
Ask open-ended questions, and listen actively,
showing through both your responses and your
body language that you’re seriously listening
and trying to understand the other person’s
position. In particular, seek out information
about what the senior manager sees as the deci-
sion or policy’s bene ts as well as any potential
downsides. It’ll give you information you can
use later to highlight how your plan can produce
similar bene ts while avoiding the potential
disadvantages.
▪ Pay attention to your word choice and
demeanor. No matter how strongly you feel
about the matter, don’t rant and rave about it.
You’re more likely to be heard if you remain
calm, objective, and professional. Try to disagree
without making it personal. Avoid phrases such
as “you’re wrong,” “you can’t,” “you should,”
or “how could you?” to prevent triggering the
other person’s automatic defense mechanisms.
▪ Take care how you suggest your alternative
solution. You can introduce your plan with
phrases such as “here’s another way to look
at this” or “what would you think about . . . ?”
Check for your superior’s reactions both by
explicitly asking for feedback and being sensi-
tive to body language clues. Point out the poten-
tial negative consequences of implementing
decisions that might be construed as unethical
by customers, shareholders, suppliers, or the
public.
▪ Be patient. Don’t demand a resolution on the
spot. During your conversation, you may realize
that your plan needs some work, or your boss
might just need time to digest the information
and opinions you’ve presented. It’s often a good
idea to ask for a follow-up meeting.
If the decision or action being considered is clearly
unethical or potentially illegal, and this meeting
doesn’t provide a quick resolution, you might need
to take your concerns to higher levels, or even blow
the whistle to someone outside the organization who
can make sure the organization stays in line. How-
ever, most managers don’t want to take actions that
will harm the organization, its people, or the commu-
nity. In many cases, questionable ethical issues can be
resolved by open and honest communication. That,
however, requires that people have the courage—and
develop the skills—to confront their superiors in a
calm and rational way.
SOURCE: Kevin Daley, “How to Disagree: Go Up Against
Your Boss or a Senior Executive and Live to Tell the Tale,”
T&D (April 2004); Diane Moore, “How to Disagree with Your
Boss—and Keep Your Job,” Toronto Star, November 12, 2003;
“How to Disagree with Your Boss,” WikiHow, http://wiki.ehow
.com/Disagree-With-Your-Boss; and “How to Confront Your
Boss Constructively,” The Buzz (October 23–29, 1996), www
.hardatwork.com/Buzz/ten.html.
How to Challenge the Boss on Ethical Issues
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