510 DEMOCRATIC CHARACTER
"While we may be unaware, at
least temporarily, of
milder
degrees
of any
one of
the other tensions
connected
with living,
we are never
unaware of anxiety
at the very time it
occurs. The
awareness can be, and very
often
is, fleeting, especially
when an
appropriate security operation
is
called
out."
".
. . any event
which
tends
to
bring
about
a
basic change in
an
established pat-
tern of dealing with others,
sets
up the tension of
anxiety and
calls out activities for
its
relief. This tension
and the activities
required for
its reduction or relief—which we call security opera-
tions
because they can
be
said
to be
addressed
to
maintaining
a
feeling of
safety in the esteem reflected to one from
the
other
person
concerned
—
always interfere with whatever other
tensions
and energy transformations
with which they happen to coincide."
"Anxiety appears not only as awareness of itself but also in the
experience of
some complex
'emotions'
into
which
it has been
elaborated by specific early training, I cannot say what all these
are but I can use
names
for
a few
of
them
which should
'open
the
mind' to their nature: embarrassment, shame,
humiliation,
guilt, and chagrin."
".
. .
security operations
. . .
are the move-
ments
of thought and the actions
of which
we,
as
it were,
impute
to or seek to provoke in the other fellow feelings like embarrass-
ment,
shame,
hiuniliation,
guilt, or
chagrin."
".
. .
fleeting mo-
ments of anxiety
. .
. mark the point in the course
of
events
at
which something disjunctive, something that
tends
to
pull
away
from the other fellow, has first appeared or has
suddenly in-
creased. They
signal a change from relatively
uncomplicated
movement
towards a
presumptively common goal to a
protecting
of one's self-esteem, with
a
definite complicating of
the interper-
sonal action."
^^
When
we observe an
infant
we
are struck by two
sets of
patterns
which can
conveniently
be
distinguished
from one
another.
There
are some "terminal" relations in
which the
infant appears to
be receiving
gratifications, such as
quiet
nursing or some
skin stimulation
or sleep. And there are
unmistakeable activities in
which the infant does not
appear
to be
receiving
gratification, as when he cries
and rages,
or
appears stricken
with numb
terror.
Suppose
we label the
61
"Towards
a
Psychiatry
of
Peoples,"
Psychiatry, 11
(1948),
105-116.