
‘the debunking of patriarchy is not accomplished by focusing exclusively
on the lives and experiences of women’. Women and men have to engage
in the formulation of anti-sexist theories and practices with both genders if
the oppression of women is to end. Additionally, the arrival of a strong
anti-feminist ‘men’s rights’ movement (Drakich, 1995) has made the view
that feminist should not work with men less tenable than it ever has been.
In the meantime, men have been drawn into the debate about their role
and place in social work (Pringle, 1992; O’Hagan and Dillenburger, 1995)
and society (Connell, 1995). They too have arranged themselves on both
sides of the divide. Some men have argued against feminist encroach-
ments on their terrain and resisted attempts to create equality between
men and women on the grounds that the current patriarchal arrangements
make the best use of the different talents held by men and women
(Lyndon, 1992). Other men have argued that women’s attempts to gain
access to their public domain, particularly in the field of employment, con-
stitutes unfair competition (Brooks, 1996). They set themselves the task of
reversing any gains that women have made including legislative ones
aimed at realising equal opportunities (Brooks, 1996). These men feel that
they have more to lose than to gain from women’s demands for liberation.
Men who support women have adopted pro-feminist stances and
drawn on feminist insights to address a number of questions that feminists
have raised. These have problematised masculinity, men’s violence against
women and children, and the role of men in child welfare work (Bowl,
1985; Hearn, 1987; Pringle, 1992, 1995; Wild, 1999). In exploring these
issues and attempting to work out solutions, these men have worked col-
lectively with other men and encouraged them to: develop a full range of
emotions, thereby giving expression to their nurturing capacities; partici-
pate fully in child care by redefining fatherhood as more than an economic
relationship; undertake a fair share of domestic and caring duties; support
women in their claims for equality in the workplace; and establish vio-
lence-free zones in which interpersonal relationships can flourish
(Snodgrass, 1977). These issues have been taken up by a range of men’s
organisations that consider themselves pro-feminist, e.g., the Achilles Heel
Collective and the Working with Men Collective in the United Kingdom,
the National Organisation for Men Against Sexism in the United States,
Men Against Sexual Assault in Australia. Their activities have been
endorsed by a range of pro-feminist men theorists and scholars like
Zaretsky (1976); Tolson (1977); Pease (1981); Bowl (1985); Hearn (1987);
Rutherford (1992); Jackson (1995) and Connell (1995).
A number of authors writing on masculinity – Connell (1995), Hearn
(1987) and Zaretsky (1976) amongst others have spoken positively of the
impact that feminist theory and practice have had on their work and think-
ing about men. In the field, groups such as the Working with Men Collective
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