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statues have found their final resting place there. It is only with
di≈culty that the visitor to Vladslo can find the plaque on which the
name of Peter Kollwitz is written. He has become one among many,
a child mourned by the two old people unable even to support each
other in their separate grief. All they can do is beg on their knees for
forgiveness, and o√er their love and their grief, fixed in stone. (On a
visit to the site a few years ago, I found not the two statues of ‘‘the
elders,’’ but green boxes covering them. The stone had been dam-
aged by the elements and by time. Even granite has a half-life.)
In considering this monument, we are on the border between
metaphor and lived experience. To say that at Roggevelde these were
Käthe Kollwitz’s lost sons is, on one level, poetic license. But on
another level, her gathering of her son’s generation into her family
was an essential element in her e√ort to express the ‘‘meaning’’ of the
war for her whole generation. Like many others, hers was a family
which was defined by those who weren’t there, and joined in an
essential sense by other survivors.
By telling the story of her work of remembrance, we can begin to
hear the dissonance between the tone and register of her activity,
and the kinship, real and fictive, it describes, and the tone and reg-
ister of national commemorative designs. In this sense, the smaller
the canvas, the more continuous is the thread connecting topoi and
experience, connecting sites of memory and the agents of remem-
brance. Once we leap to the national level, such organic links are
almost always stretched to the breaking point and beyond. There are
exceptions; the initial two-minute silence is one of them; Maya Lin’s
Vietnam Veterans Memorial, is another. But by and large only local
activity, and small-scale activity at that, can preserve the original
charge, the emotion, the conviction which went into war memorial
work. Once we arrive at the level of the nation, we encounter politics
of a di√erent kind. Monumentality is never the language of the small
social solidarities described here.