HOW PEOPLE THINK
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36 TIME IS RELATIVE
Has this ever happened to you? You’re traveling to visit friends. It’s two hours to get
there and two hours to get back, but the trip there feels much longer.
In the interesting book, The Time Paradox (2009), Philip Zimbardo and John Boyd
discuss how our experience of time is relative, not absolute. There are time illusions, just
like there are visual illusions. Zimbardo reports on research that shows that the more
mental processing you do, the more time you think has elapsed. Related to the progres-
sive disclosure discussed earlier in this chapter, if people have to stop and think at each
step of a task, they’ll feel that the task is taking too long. The mental processing makes
the amount of time seem longer.
The perception of time and your reaction to it are also greatly influenced by predict-
ability and expectations. Let’s say you’re editing video on your computer. You’ve just
clicked the button to produce the video file from your edits. Will you be frustrated by how
long it takes to produce the video? If you do this task often, and it normally takes 3 min-
utes, then 3 minutes will not seem like a long time. If there is a progress indicator, then
you know what to expect. You’ll go pour yourself a cup of coee and come back. But if it
sometimes takes 30 seconds and sometimes takes 5 minutes, and you don’t know which
one it’s going to be this time, then you will be very frustrated if it takes 3 minutes. Three
minutes will seem much longer than it usually does.
IF PEOPLE FEEL PRESSED FOR TIME, THEY WON’T
STOP TO HELP SOMEONE
In the “Good Samaritan” research by John Darley and C. Batson (1973), Princeton semi-
nary students were asked to prepare a speech on either jobs for seminary graduates
or the parable of the Good Samaritan. The parable is about several holy men who pass
someone in need but don’t stop to help. The Samaritan comes upon the person in need
and does stop and help him. In the research study, the seminary students were asked to
prepare their talks, and then they were told to go to a building across campus and give
the talk. The experimenter gave the participants dierent instructions, depending on
whether they were in the Low, Intermediate, or High Hurry category:
Low Hurry: “It’ll be a few minutes before they’re ready for you, but you might
as well head on over. If you have to wait over there, it shouldn’t be long.”
Intermediate Hurry: “The assistant is ready for you, so please go right over.”
High Hurry: “Oh, you’re late. They were expecting you a few minutes ago.
You’d better get moving. The assistant should be waiting for you so you’d
better hurry. It should only take a minute.”