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______ ______ 11. I frequently give other people positive feedback.
______ ______ 12. I emphasize building on strengths, not just overcoming weaknesses.
______ ______ 13. I use a lot more positive comments than negative comments.
______ ______ 14. I compare my own (or my group’s) performance against the highest standards.
______ ______ 15. When I communicate a vision, I capture people’s hearts as well as their heads.
______ ______ 16. I work to close abundance gaps—the difference between good performance and
great performance.
______ ______ 17. I exemplify absolute integrity.
______ ______ 18. I know how to get people to commit to my vision of positive change.
______ ______ 19. I take advantage of a small-wins strategy in all my change initiatives.
______ ______ 20. I have developed a teachable point of view for subjects I care about.
REFLECTED BEST-SELF FEEDBACK
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EXERCISE*
All of us can recall our own extraordinary moments, those moments when we felt that our
best self was brought to light, affirmed by others, and put into practice. These memories are
seared into our minds as moments in which we have felt alive, true to our deepest selves,
and pursuing our full potential as human beings. Over time, we collect these experiences
into a portrait of who we are when we are at our personal best. To help compose a best-self
portrait, it is important to draw on the perceptions of significant others who have unique
and valuable insights into our strengths and enduring talents. The Reflected Best-Self
Feedback Exercise creates an opportunity for us to receive feedback regarding who we are
when we are at our best. A detailed explanation of this exercise, including the research that
supports its effectiveness in helping people become better leaders, can be found at:
www.bus.umich.edu/positive. Look under POS teaching and learning tools.
In this exercise, you will gather information about yourself from other people who
know you well. In the Skill Practice section of the chapter, you will be asked to develop a
best self-portrait based on this feedback. The first step is to gather the information. Here is
how you go about it.
Identify 20 people who know you well. These may be colleagues (former or current),
friends (old or recent), family members, neighbors, class members, or anyone who has
had extended contact with you. Think about who will give you an honest opinion. The
more diverse the group, the better. Also, realize that due to time constraints, everyone
may not be able to respond. You need at least 10 responses to complete this part of the
assignment, so ask enough people to ensure at least 10 responses, but try for 20.
Compose the feedback request (see the example request below), and send it to the
20 people you select. While this request may seem awkward or difficult for you, people
have found this assessment to be a profound learning activity, and other people are quite
willing to participate in this exercise. You will find that this actually strengthens your rela-
tionships in many instances.
SOURCE: Roberts et al., 2005.
A SAMPLE E-MAIL REQUEST FOR FEEDBACK
I am taking a course that requires me to construct a profile of my unique strengths. I have
been asked to contact 20 people who know me well. I would like to invite you to help me
* This assessment is not available online.