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Freida Mae Jones
Freida Mae Jones, Assistant Manager, Branch Operations
Freida Mae Jones was born in her grandmother’s Georgia farmhouse on June 1, 1949. She
was the sixth of George and Ella Jones’s 10 children. Mr. and Mrs. Jones moved to New York
City when Freida was four because they felt the educational and career opportunities for their
children would be better in the North. With the help of some cousins, they settled in a five-
room apartment in the Bronx. George worked as a janitor at Lincoln Memorial Hospital, and
Ella was a part-time housekeeper in a nearby neighborhood. George and Ella were
conservative, strict parents. They kept a close watch on their children’s activities and
demanded they be home by a certain hour. The Joneses believed that because they were
African American, the children would have to perform and behave better than their peers to
be successful. They believed their children’s education would be the most important factor in
their success as adults.
Freida entered Memorial High School, a racially integrated public school, in September
1963. Seventy percent of the student body was Caucasian, 20 percent African American, and
10 percent Hispanic. About 60 percent of the graduates went on to college, of which 4 percent
were African American, Hispanic, and male. In her senior year, Freida was the top student in
her class. Following school regulations, Freida met with her guidance counselor to discuss plans
upon graduation. The counselor advised her to consider training in a “practical” field such as
housekeeping, cooking, or sewing, so that she could find a job.
George and Ella Jones were furious when Freida told them what the counselor had
advised. Ella said, “Don’t they see what they are doing? Freida is the top-rated student in her
whole class and they are telling her to become a manual worker. She showed she has a fine
mind and can work better than any of her classmates and still she is told not to become any-
body in this world. It’s really not any different in the North than back home in Georgia, except
that they don’t try to hide it down South. They want her to throw away her fine mind because
she is an African American girl and not a white boy. I’m going to go up to her school tomor-
row and talk to the principal.”
As a result of Mrs. Jones’s visit to the principal, Freida was assisted in applying to 10 Eastern
colleges, each of which offered her full scholarships. In September 1966, Freida entered Werbley
College, an exclusive private women’s college in Massachusetts. In 1970, Freida graduated
summa cum laude in history. She decided to return to New York to teach grade school in the
city’s public school system. Freida was unable to obtain a full-time position, so she substituted.
She also enrolled as a part-time student in Columbia University’s Graduate School of Education.
In 1975, she had attained her master of arts degree in teaching from Columbia but could not find
a permanent teaching job. New York City was laying off teachers and had instituted a hiring
freeze because of the city’s financial problems.
Feeling frustrated about her future as a teacher, Freida decided to get an MBA. She thought
there was more opportunity in business than in education. Churchill Business School, a small,
prestigious school located in upstate New York, accepted Freida into its MBA program.
Freida completed her MBA in 1977 and accepted an entry-level position at the
Industrialist World Bank of Boston in a fast-track management development program. The
three-year program introduced her to all facets of bank operations, from telling to loan training
and operations management. She was rotated to branch offices throughout New England.
After completing the program, she became an assistant manager for branch operations in the
West Springfield branch office.
During her second year in the program, Freida had met James Walker, an African American
doctoral student in Business Administration at the University of Massachusetts. Her assignment
to West Springfield precipitated their decision to get married. They originally anticipated
they would marry when James finished his doctorate and could move to Boston. Instead, they
decided he would pursue a job in the Springfield-Hartford area.