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To determine the basins of attraction of each stable steady state we have to deter-
mine the separatrices. This, as in most differential equation systems, has to be done
numerically. However, at least in the neighbourhood of each stable steady state we can
get some idea of the strength of attraction. With differential equations, one way to mea-
sure the strength of attraction of a steady state is to construct an energy type of function,
such as a Liapunov function. This is not always easy. For difference equation systems,
such as we have in the marriage interaction model here, there is, as far as we know, no
such equivalent. However, in the neighbourhood of a stable steady state, essentially in
the linear neighbourhood, we can give a parameter which provides at least some com-
parative basis for the strength of the stable steady state attractor.
The linear perturbation solutions w
t
and h
t
about a steady state are given by (5.15).
For stable steady states, |λ
1
| < 1and|λ
2
| < 1. To be specific suppose |λ
2
| < |λ
1
|.
As t increases the term involving λ
t
1
eventually dominates the solution. The closer |λ
1
|
is to 1, the slower the perturbations about the steady state die out and hence the weaker is
the attraction of the steady state. So, a measure, albeit a linear measure, of the strength,
S, of an attracting stable steady state is given by
S = maximum(|λ
1
| and |λ
2
|).
The closer S is to unity, the weaker is the attractor, or alternatively the closer S is to zero
the stronger the attractor. This result may have considerable importance. For example,
one effect of marital therapy may be to strengthen the positive attractor and weaken the
negative attractor; we discuss the application of the theory to marital therapy below.
An example of a hypothetical sequence of scores is shown in Figure 5.5 approach-
ing the more positive steady state. This theoretical conversation would be constructed
by simply iterating equations (5.4) and (5.5) from some initial pair of scores. The po-
tential existence of multiple stable steady states each with its own basin of attraction has
practical implications. The model suggests that the final outcome (positive or negative
trend) of a conversation could depend critically on the opening scores of each partner.
Where one begins in the phase space is determined by the couple’s actual initial con-
ditions, in other words which basin of attraction you start in. We have generally found
that the end points can depend critically on starting values.
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An observed or a ‘reconstructed’ conversation can be represented in the phase plane
as a series of connected points. In addressing the issue of stability of the steady states,
we are asking whether the mathematical equations imply that the reconstructed series
will approach a given steady state. Analytically, we ask the question of where a steady
state will move once it is slightly perturbed from its position. Of course the theoretical
behaviour of the model in response to perturbations of the steady states is only possible
once we have a functional form for the influence functions. For example, as we have
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Notwithstanding what has been termed the punctuation fallacy, in which where one starts in an interaction
is quite arbitrary, we have found in practice that the couple’s starting values of the interaction appear to be
very important in determining the couple’s eventual trajectory. We have considered modifying the influence
functions to include a repair component, whose existence would be capable of moving a couple from a
negative to a positive steady state. If there were a repair component operating, the cumulative graph could
look like a check mark, starting downward and then changing direction. Unfortunately, this occurred in our
data for only 4% of the cases. Perhaps effective marital therapy might add such a repair component to the
influence functions. This is discussed in detail by Gottman et al. (2002).